Tea Party Etiquette for Guests – Before the Party

TIP #1 RSVP
It is still a huge honor to receive an invite. When you call the hostess to RSVP, ask her if she has a preferred dress code.

Tip #2 Let the Hostess Know She’s Appreciated
Bring a hostess gift. This can be a small trinket of appreciation.
The hostess gift can also be flowers, a tea cup, or even stationary.

Tip #3 Know the Dress Code
 If the tea is in the morning or afternoon, you can wear lighter colored clothes and you can even wear slacks.
If the tea is at six o’clock or later, it is considered a High Tea. You wear darker colors and clothing that is more elegant.


Tip #4 Be On Time
The hostess has put a lot of thought, time and effort into this special even, so you need to reciprocate with good etiquette.