When less is more
Too much happiness may be too much of a good thing.
By Fariss Samarrai
Posted 11/14/07

Oishi
Photo by Dan Addison
Are you happy? Well don’t try to be happier; you might become
less happy. That is the gist of a multi-cultural study published this
month in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
The
study by University of Virginia psychology professor Shigehiro Oishi
and colleagues at three other institutions found that, on average,
European-Americans claim to be happy in general — more happy than
Asian-Americans or Koreans or Japanese — but are more easily made less
happy by negative events, and recover at a slower rate from negative
events, than their counterparts in Asia or with an Asian ancestry. On
the other hand, Koreans, Japanese, and to a lesser extent,
Asian-Americans, are less happy in general, but recover their emotional
equilibrium more readily after a setback than European-Americans.
“We
found that the more positive events a person has, the more they feel
the effects of a negative event,” Oishi said. “People seem to dwell on
the negative thing when they have a large number of good events in
their life.
“It is like the person who is used to flying first
class and becomes very annoyed if there is a half-hour delay. But the
person who flies economy class accepts the delay in stride.”